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UK Husband, wife or civil partner visa laws finally changed!

A couple of years back the government in the UK decided that to combat the growing problem with forced marriages they would introduce a law which denies entry to a spouse or civil partner if the settled British citizen is under 21 years of age.


When Clark and I saw this law we despaired! With me being 4 years away from my 21st birthday at the time, it put a downer on all our plans as we realised the bloody (but well-meaning...I guess) government had placed an impenetrable barrier around me, stopping Clark and I from being able to have a life together. Cor blimey, talk about making things near hopeless! Not only did we have the distance,our youth and our lack of funds to contend with, now there was also the time span we had to be apart!


We were not the only ones. Over 5,000 genuine couples each year were denied their right to a married life. What really got my back up about this was that the number of genuine couples denied togetherness was 100 times more than the number of forced marriages prevented...okay, so slight exaggeration but just thinking about it makes my blood boil!


It was a denial of our human rights but what could we have done? We had to resign ourselves to long-term separation...


That was until the supreme court, the Red-Blue blur that came to our rescue, forced the government to change this blatant contradiction of human rights and so finally a piece of good news! 


What do you think about the government's back-track? Does it affect you and your husband/wife/civil partner?


I look forward to hearing your thoughts! 

Things to do with your loved one from a distance ♥♥♥

Trick them with Akinator, the web genius, the genie who reads your mind ...


I fell for this trick straight away and I'm sure that your loved one will too!

1. First of all, go to this webpage: en.akinator.com
2. Then click play. You will be asked to provide a few details before being able to play
3. Tell your partner that you are able to read their mind and to prove it, ask them to think of a fictional or real character. Instruct them that you are going to be asking them some questions and they can only reply with on of 5 responses: Yes, Probably, I don't know, probably not, no.
4. Ask them the questions that are generated by Akinator such as "Is your character real?" and then get them to answer one of the 5 responses.
5. Click on the response that matches your partner's answer.
6. Akinator will then ask another question which you in turn ask your partner.
7. Continue in this way until Akinator comes up with a guess at who your partner is thinking of. If it's right, prepare for your partner's amazement! But in the unlikely case that it's not, Akinator will continue asking questions and you might still be able to wow your loved one.

This is available as an app too!

Things to do with your loved one from a distance ♥♥♥

Have a romantic dinner date through Skype(or another video-calling platform)


This is a great way to celebrate a special occasion such as a birthday or anniversary or maybe you are just feeling particularly romantic one evening. Whatever the reason, you are sure to spend a fantastic evening together!


To really create the impression that your loved one is sitting across from you and to create a really romantic atmosphere, why not try a few of these ideas?

• Buy the same table cloth from the same store (if possible)
• Each prepare the same meal
• Eat by candle-light
• Buy the same bottle of wine/champagne (if possible)
• have some romantic music playing that reminds you of good times you have had

Bon Appetit!

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Things to do with your loved one from a distance ♥♥♥

Video calling


There exists a multitude of different video-calling applications that you can use to talk to your loved-one. I'm sure that if you are having a long-distance relationship, chances are you are already using one of these but it may be worth trying some of the other ones out there.


Here are some of them:

• Skype 
• MSN
• Fring
• Tango
• Video call for FaceBook
• Yahoo messenger
• icq messenger